Everyone has all kinds of first experiences and can't forget all the first things. The first love is the most unforgettable thing among the unforgettable things. I sorted out why the people I like in junior middle school can't forget. Welcome to refer to it.
Why can't people like junior high school forget
The first taste of love is your first taste.
When you are young, you are in love. It's a wonderful feeling to fall in love with someone. I have experienced the feelings of parents, teachers and students, friends and brothers and sisters, but I have not experienced love. Love is so different. Before you know it, you fall in love with someone. He (she) is not beautiful, he (she) is beautiful. Start secretly writing love letters to him or her. The night is deep and there is peace around. It's just that you're sweating. I can't even bear to look at him (her) more for fear of destroying the beauty in your heart. Looking at each other and blushing, that feeling is really wonderful. You're affectionate. I mean it. Even if you touch your fingertips, you will have atrial tremor, such as electric shock all over your body... This is the feeling of first love, and it is only when you taste love for the first time.
The second aspect is that there is your beautiful imagination of all love.
All beauty comes from fantasy, especially for love. You are Jia Baoyu. You will imagine it as Lin Daiyu. You are the weaver girl. You will think of it as a cowherd. All the beautiful love stories you read, you will fantasize about what will happen to you. If you don't see him or her during the day, you will toss and turn and can't sleep at night. Close your eyes and he or she will stand in front of you. It's so beautiful and ecstatic. You show your best and best side to him (her) for fear that he will see any defect in you, because that will destroy your beautiful imagination of love. The love you imagine is to have him or her forever. And he (she) will always be as beautiful as you think.
In the third aspect, he or she becomes your memory.
Perhaps, you haven't tasted the taste of love carefully, the beautiful love has left you. Your first love has become your memory. All memories can only be fragmented fragments. And every fragment left behind is the most beautiful one. Even, sometimes it may not be so beautiful, but it will become so beautiful in your memories over and over again. Yes, it's your subconscious mind that makes you do this. Since it has become the past, since it can no longer have, what can be done can only make the memory better. When you grow up, enter marriage and have new love, you will unconsciously recall your first love when you are unhappy and unhappy. This is also a kind of subconscious, which can't be controlled by you.
A few days ago, a topic on Weibo aroused many people's memories: "how do male and female students define first love?"
In fact, the following comments do not say how to define first love. Instead, everyone describes the feeling of first love in their own words.
Someone said, "when we are together, we don't feel as good as we thought. After we leave, we don't feel so good anymore."
Someone said, "a whole lemon is squeezed on the tip of the heart."
Some people say: "first love is strawberry, sour and sweet."
When it comes to first love, everyone will have something to say. After all, it was the first time in life to establish an intimate relationship with a person, the first time to have the feeling of bumping into a deer, and the first time to experience what "love" is.
However, few people will go on with their first love. At that ignorant, young and ignorant age, few people will handle it properly in love, so the first love has become a lemon on the tip of the heart, a sour and sweet strawberry, and a regret that will never return.
These regrets are put into our hearts and become the encouragement or stumbling block for us to continue to love. However, first love will be the most important thing in life. The person who loves but doesn't love all his life can't forget to hide it in his heart.