The contradictions and conflicts caused by the generation gap are destructive to the family and society. "Causes of generation gap" many students will encounter this word without translation. Here are the reasons why I carefully sorted out the generation gap for you. Let's have a look.
The reasons of the generation gap
(1) as teenagers enter puberty, their self-awareness, self-esteem and independence are strengthened. They gradually look at their parents with a critical eye. They strongly hope and begin to try to establish an equal relationship with their parents and no longer blindly rely on their parents. However, their parents still regard us as children or children, resulting in various misunderstandings, differences, estrangements, and even contradictions and conflicts.
(2) there are differences between us and our parents in terms of knowledge level, ideas and behavior, and our views and attitudes towards the same problem are not necessarily the same, resulting in contradictions.
(3) the closer and closer relationship with peers will also make us relatively alienated from our parents for a century.
(4) emotional and psychological changes make us often treat our parents with a stubborn, antagonistic and rebellious attitude, which intensifies the contradiction and conflict between us and our parents.
Mutual understanding
Communication should pay attention to methods.
Communication should be carried out continuously with the change of time and two generations.
Parents should strive to learn knowledge, understand the characteristics of their children in advance, and strive to grasp the characteristics and concepts of the times; Continuous learning and progress; At the same time, adjust the physical and mental state, and strive to treat their children with an optimistic, cheerful and trusting face; Don't be too impetuous, be patient and slowly learn to understand and care
Children should be considerate, care about their parents, and adopt appropriate methods to guide their parents to understand themselves and the concept of the times; At the same time, we need to have a clear and profound understanding of our youth and superficiality. Don't act inappropriately because some of your parents' views can't keep up with the trend. Learn to understand
Specific method
Acceptance: after careful analysis and thinking, understand the other party's opinions and attitudes, accept the correct and reasonable part of the other party, and give up their own prejudice.
Integration: young people can learn experience from the elderly, while the elderly can learn new ideas from young people. The two can learn from each other and integrate into a more perfect scheme.
Compromise: for the different ideas and opinions of the two generations, a compromise plan can be made. On the basis of making some concessions, both sides should take into account the interests of both sides.
Coexistence: if their actions do not harm the interests of the other party, the two sides have different opinions and do not involve principled issues, they can hold their own views and do not interfere with each other.
Shelving: for principled issues, the two sides have different views, and do not fight with the tip of the needle against the wheat awn, so as to blush and hurt the harmony. We can put the problem on hold for the time being, wait and see the development, and then solve it when we have a chance in the future.