In fact, we care about the timeliness of other people's reply, otherwise we always think that the other party doesn't care about ourselves. In fact, some people think it's nothing to reply immediately, while others always have to think about it and organize a very concise sentence. No matter what kind of reply, let's follow me to see what the other party thinks in their heart?
The mobile phone will not leave the body
Nowadays, people always have the feeling that their mobile phone is inseparable from their body. In fact, they don't deliberately prolong the time to reply to you. They are very calm. They just see that they will reply immediately. When they don't reply to you in time, they don't see the news of their mobile phone. Maybe they are busy with other things. In fact, I think some people really don't rely on their mobile phone. They will have their own personal space, Instead of relying entirely on mobile phones to consume their time, so when they don't reply to you, they may not see it.
I don't know how to reply to the topic
Sometimes you think your question is very simple. In the other party's opinion, it may be a question you don't know how to answer. Part of the reason is that you feel that the dialogue is boring and don't know how to reply. You're worried that you're unhappy because you don't reply in time when the other party chats, you should understand that they may not know how to reply, That's why the time to reply to you is delayed. You should understand that when two people get along, they should chat from the position of the other party, rather than throwing a question to the other party and complaining that the other party didn't reply in time.
You're not important
In fact, for this reason, what they think is that your news is not worth replying immediately. You are dispensable for them. They don't want to have so much communication with you. Although it's cruel, it's really what they think. If a person thinks you're not so important, naturally everything about you is not so important to them. Your news, your care and greetings, They are also too lazy to see. After all, the people who really like you will put you first, otherwise they will not reply to you decisively.
Ready to reply, I forgot again
This situation also exists, because when some people are really ready to reply to you, they forget to reply to you later. Many times, we can understand that if a person picks up his mobile phone to reply to a message, he interrupts because of other things, but you don't know the specific reason. I suggest that if you often forget to reply to other people's messages, you might as well reply to something busy first, Then reply to other people's news, which will not make the other party feel shameless, but also alleviate the busy atmosphere and have the best of both worlds.
In short, if someone around you always doesn't reply to your message, the above reasons have been explained clearly. Some people really don't deliberately don't reply, but interrupt because of some busy things, so don't always think that they don't reply is deliberately ignoring you. I think the relationship between people should not be just connected in the chat. In fact, more emotions are in the heart, not on the surface, Give yourself more stability to get along with others. Don't always take the reply time to judge the intimacy between two people.