Poor communication is the "Curse" of many marriage and family problems. It often leads to various marriage and family contradictions and conflicts, and even leads to the disintegration of marriage. How to communicate well between husband and wife is an important issue.
1. Come straight to the point
If there are any problems between husband and wife, they can communicate directly and honestly. There is no need to beat around the bush. Timely communication can eliminate many misunderstandings and puzzles.
2. Twists and turns
The husband and wife may not think about the other side's feelings, but they may or may not feel that if they don't agree with each other, they may not feel that they can give a detour, or if they don't feel that they have a good response.
3. Tell a story
You can present the problem you want to explain to the other party in the way of telling a story. Of course, the protagonist must change to someone else's name to see what the other party's attitude towards the people in the story is, so that you can know it in your heart.
4. Treat each other sincerely
No matter whether there is a problem in your heart that you don't know how to communicate, you must treat your other half sincerely. After all, he will be the one who will accompany you to your old age. Please be kind to him.
5. Be loyal to each other
Don't do anything sorry for the other party or make yourself feel guilty, otherwise you will destroy your marriage and family. Some principled problems cannot be solved by communication. So stick to your bottom line and don't cross the minefield.
6. Try to understand the nonverbal behavior between husband and wife
65% of the communication between people is nonverbal. People's every move contains communication information. If couples can experience and accurately feel each other's nonverbal information as much as possible, it will contribute to good communication between couples.
Feelings need to be communicated. If couples who get along day and night don't know how to communicate, it seems that they will become strange after a long time. But communication should also pay attention to ways and methods.