When couples who have been in love for many years break up, people will wonder why they break up. In fact, people's emotions are very complex, and there are various reasons for breaking up. Here are the five reasons why couples break up. Let's have a look.
1. They are no longer attractive to each other
The word "love" actually has to be read apart.
What is "love"? Love is the emotion that both parties attract each other at the beginning. They want to see each other every minute.
What kind of love? That is the feeling that two people are helping each other and living together.
The initial love is maintained by "love". Living together after marriage is maintained by "love".
However, when the couple has been together for three months, they have passed the hot love period. You know each other's temper, temperament and living habits.
If you feel tired with each other, you don't feel attractive to each other.
Because people are always in pursuit of freshness, if in each other's body. If you don't notice this freshness, you may break up.
2. Boys become slag
What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are preferred have no fear.
It is undeniable that there are many scum men in the world. They are very handsome and are especially good at playing with girls' emotions. He may say "good night" to this girl one second and open a video phone with another girl the next.
When a boy first went to college, he kept simple and kind, but slowly, he saw more of the world and found that it didn't matter to find more girlfriends.
When his girlfriend found out that he had found a new girlfriend and questioned him, he simply had a showdown and said, "I don't like you for a long time. Let's go."
This will turn the lovers who once loved each other into enemies.
3. Girls become slag
Girls are no less scum than scum boys, and even more scum than many boys. Some girls are disgusting. She will put all the boys who like her into a QQ group, and then send photos directly to listen to the words of those boys praising her.
She will feel very satisfied. She feels that it is particularly comfortable for many boys to chase her. She will even show off to her girlfriends and say, "do you have so many boys chasing me?".
The more you think about such a girl, the more disgusting it is. A good girl only needs a boyfriend, and a "broken car" needs a lot of "spare tires".
4. The three views are inconsistent
Girls want to struggle for a few years, buy a house, maybe live in peace.
Boys want to take money to learn the future and make greater achievements.
Girls think about the good development of second tier cities and have no worries about food and drink and stability.
Boys still want to go to big cities such as Beijing and Shenzhen.
Girls think of the quiet years, boys think of the magnificent.
The three views of men and women are inconsistent, which may lead to a situation, that is, long-distance love.
But long distance love is a particularly difficult thing to maintain. Everyone is a lonely island.
When the couple is not around, it is difficult to guarantee that they will not fall in love with the opposite sex elsewhere, and the relationship seems to be no longer so simple.
The final result is only to break up, which is because the two people's three views are inconsistent.
5. Different lifestyles
Sanmao said: "love, if not implemented into the real life of dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping, is not easy to last forever."
I don't know what I like about the song at the beginning. It's the end of the song to listen to it again.
You may not know whether this sentence is true when you are young. You think love can surpass everything, but you find it when you really live with a opposite sex.
All kinds of problems come. For example, if boys smoke, you don't like the smell of smoke. For example, some northerners don't like bathing, but southerners don't feel comfortable without bathing all day.
There is another problem, that is, eating. If a boyfriend and girlfriend are two people far apart, for example, one is from the north and the other is from the south. Girls in Sichuan, Guizhou and Hunan love spicy food, but northerners are particularly sensitive to eating a little spicy since childhood.
Over time, the small habits of life have become a big problem, which may also be a reason for breaking up.
In fact, after saying so much, I still hope that when you really like a person, don't exaggerate each other's shortcomings too much, but really appreciate each other's advantages. Others are your object, not a person who makes you pick bones in your eggs.