Many people say that love without the purpose of marriage is playing hooligans in disguise. It's strange that there are so many cases for men, so we don't think so. As long as a man says he doesn't want to get married, it will make people doubt his sincerity in this relationship, and even doubt that he is just playing, because a real man who has been in love with a woman for many years but never gets married is not suspicious. But is that really the case? Let's also take a look at why those men who have been in love with women for many years but finally refuse to enter marriage think?
First, fear of marriage (the influence of the original family)
Maybe he was used to the misfortune of his parents' marriage since he was a child, so he unconsciously resisted marriage in his mind, thinking that after marriage, the two people may be like his parents, arguing all day, or like strangers, speechless to each other. And what is the use of such a marriage? Wouldn't it be better to maintain the status quo all the time?
Secondly, the view of marriage is weak
Marriage is not what human beings need, and that engagement can not explain anything. Therefore, in fact, marriage is not necessarily necessary. Cherish the time together now, and then hand in hand to grow old. Even if you don't get a certificate, you can't get married, isn't it?
Finally, I want to continue playing in the world
Love for you is not deep enough. I don't want to be trapped in marriage and tied up so early. He also yearned for the big world of flowers, and even thought that maybe one day he would change your girlfriend and go out with others. For him, marriage will ruin all his freedom and turn each other into detestable people, so why marry? After getting married, how can he flirt with his younger sister in the name of being single and go to bars to play hi?
In fact, marriage is a matter of course. Sometimes it is difficult to get it if you force it too hard. On the contrary, they continue to get along and maintain a harmonious relationship. When one day they feel that the time is right, they will go hand in hand to get the certificate, which can be regarded as adding flowers to this relationship.
Therefore, if you meet the person who wants to work together for a lifetime, why not give her a certificate and peace of mind?