Every child will be rebellious in the process of growing up. Rebellious children will always give parents a headache. What are the specific manifestations of children's rebellious period? Do parents know what to do when their children rebel? I sorted out how children treat their parents, which shows that it is a rebellious period. Please refer to it.
How children treat their parents shows that they are rebellious
1. Highly destructive
An important performance of rebellious children is that they like to throw things, dismantle toys, scribble, tear books, and deliberately make toys all over the floor.
2. Stubbornness and intense emotional response
Insist on a specific thing, even if it is the same appearance; Insist on wearing certain clothes and shoes, even if they are not in line with the season; Do what you want to do, or you will cry and make a scene; Sitting on the ground in public, playing tricks and beating people.
3. Disagree with your parents and challenge the rules
Parents do not do what they ask, and the more things they are forbidden to do, the more they have to do; Ignore your parents and prefer to play by yourself; Set up new requirements and new rules before failure.
4. It's easy to fight with other children
When playing with other children, they compete for the same toy and the order of priority. They are unwilling to share toys with others, but they love to grab other people's toys, and even hit people in serious cases.
Why does rebellious behavior occur during adolescence
(I) the emergence of secondary sexual characteristics with the change of age
(II) the disadvantages of traditional education hinder the needs of children's development.
How can teachers correctly guide and help children in a rebellious period
(I) infiltrate correct outlook on life and values into education and teaching
(II) adhere to the educational method of counseling and maintain children's self-esteem
(III) proper control and guidance is not just binding.
How do parents correctly guide children in a rebellious period
(I) establish a good parent-child relationship with children
(II) children's shortcomings and mistakes must be seriously pointed out and correctly guided
(III) combating domestic violence
(IV) parents should encourage and praise more. (V) they should not use domestic violence to solve problems.
What can children do to minimize the damage during the rebellious period
(I) self learning and understanding adolescence
(II) have a sunny attitude
(III) trust your parents and communicate more with them.